Choosing Godparents for Your Child’s Baptism
A Godparent plays a vital role in guiding your child’s faith journey by living as a faithful Catholic example.
This is not an honorary title but a lifelong commitment to support your child’s spiritual growth.
Choose carefully, ensuring they align with the teachings of the Catholic Church.
Godparent Requirements (Per Canon Law)
- Fully initiated Roman Catholic, having received Baptism, Eucharist, and Confirmation.
- At least 16 years old.
- Not the child’s parent.
- Free from canonical penalties (e.g., if married, must be married in the Catholic Church or have a dispensation; cannot be cohabiting unless married).
- Regularly attends Mass on Sundays and Holy Days, receives Holy Communion and Reconciliation, and is registered in a parish.
How Many Godparents?
One Godparent is required, male or female. If selecting two, one must be male and one female, both meeting the above requirements.
No more than two Godparents may be recorded in the baptismal registry.
Can a Divorced Person Be a Godparent?
Yes, if they are in good standing with the Catholic Church (e.g., not remarried or in a serious relationship unless the prior marriage is annulled).
Godparent vs. Legal Guardian
A Godparent supports your child’s faith, not their legal guardianship. Legal guardians are appointed through a will or other legal means.
What Is a Proxy?
If a Godparent cannot attend the Baptism, a proxy may stand in during the ceremony. The proxy is noted in the baptismal registry but not on the certificate.
Can Godparents Be Changed Later?
Baptismal records are permanent and cannot be altered. If a Godparent no longer meets the qualifications,
you may choose another person to guide your child’s faith, but the certificate remains unchanged.
Next Steps
Contact your chosen Godparents promptly and request a letter of good standing from their parish pastor, to be sent to St. Francis de Sales parish office.
This letter is required before the Baptism can proceed. For questions, please contact the parish office.
